Your wife has no right to force you to leave your family. It’s your fundamental right to stay in your country. As you said you are being forced then you should have an effective communication with your wife and should try to find the root reason for her sayings. You should talk to her and should try to change her mind. Leaving your family and country is a very big step and nobody shouldn’t force you to do that. You can also talk to your family about it and ask for their opinion.