This is not something you can hide or bother yourself with. This is your right to ask your wife and talk about the matter. You should confront her fearlessly and without having a second thought, talking to her directly is way better than having all the pain to yourself only. Ask her the reason why she did so, and confront her in front of the boyfriend she’s having an extramarital affair. 

This is not something you can hide or bother yourself with. This is your right to ask your wife and talk about the matter. You should confront her fearlessly and without having a second thought, talking to her directly is way better than having all the pain to yourself only. Ask her the reason why she did so, and confront her in front of the boyfriend she’s having an extramarital affair.